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"As we've seen time and again, so many of you would fuck a picket fence if it were white."

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[(Anonymous)]

My slp told me for a year and a half how our line was the only one she had but I found out she's had so many sls in that time. She also told me she was sooooo busy with work but was backburning me. I'm not bothered by the other sls but I am so bothered by the lying since I never asked, she volunteered that info. I don't believe anything she says to me anymore. She could tell me what she ate for dinner and I'm just like, did you really, though? I think it's time for me to move on.

[(Anonymous)]

Do you both a favor and end it.

[(Anonymous)]

Not the op but if op wasn't lying why would ending it be a favor to the lying slp

[(Anonymous)]

In my experience people don't lie about insignificant things like that without a reason. Not saying op is the reason. And getting upset over insignificant lies isn't healthy for op either.

[(Anonymous)]

Have you not met a compulsive liar? I've known a few.

[(Anonymous)]

Different anon here but I promise you people like that exist and I've encountered a couple on this server myself. You could be the chillest slp on the planet and they'll still lie to preemptively cover their ass (or because they're compulsive, but either way it's not fun for the other person).

[(Anonymous)]

100% anon and I'm telling you from experience, you deserve better.

[(Anonymous)]

Slps who lie like this are sociopathic. I had one who would lie to me about the most basic and mundane things (for example she had medical emergencies and going to the hospital or was in a car accident) but she was sitting on the computer rping and didn't want to interact.

[(Anonymous)]

Definitely. You two sound like you have an unhealthy relationship.

[(Anonymous)]

Why are you blaming OP?

[(Anonymous)]

I am wondering the same thing. Sounds like the OP didn't pry about the other lines but her slp volunteered it. Op doesn't care about other sls. I think most people wouldn't like being lied to.

[(Anonymous)]

It's the being lied to for me. Have other sls, do what makes you happy but there's really no need to be lying.

[(Anonymous)]

Nope, be done with it. They can't be honest with you, they don't deserve the free time you have.

[(Anonymous)]

I'm not surprised there are a few anons here trying to blame you for this. My ex-slp was a pathological liar about the most ridiculous things, most of which I never even asked about, and the lies ranged from not so serious like her internet being out to very serious like her dad being in the hospital. When I finally confronted her about one of the lies because it was one that was very hurtful to me personally, she gaslighted me so hard that I actually believed I was the sole problem. It was only a few years later that I finally realized how abusive she was, so get out unscathed while you still can, anon.