(Anonymous) 2023-07-22 01:42 am (UTC)(link)
I wouldn't be mad about the OOC communication itself as much as it sucks to lose a potential. But that little addition of being seen as a backup grinds my gears.

(Anonymous) 2023-07-22 01:44 am (UTC)(link)
This was fine until that line.

(Anonymous) 2023-07-22 01:48 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah. Knowing not to waste my time and not having to question why someone would pull away is actually great. I wish that kind of transparency was more common. But the implication that they basically expect me to still be waiting around for the line while they frolic about? Hell no.

(Anonymous) 2023-07-22 02:03 am (UTC)(link)
I don't mind OOC transparency at all but, OP correct me if I'm wrong, it sounds like they let someone down easy prematurely when they weren't even in a SL yet, so I would think it's a little presumptuous or patronizing, but that's just me.

(Anonymous) 2023-07-22 05:20 am (UTC)(link)
That's what does it for me, the expectation that they'll just be waiting in the wings.