This is more of a general question not about this specific topic, but why do so many rpers think "xyz happened to me, so I don't care if it happens to other people" or worse "xyz happened to me, so I want to be the one to do it to other people"? If something felt bad when it happened to you, shouldn't you know that it feels bad and not want that for someone else? Idk. It's stuff like this that I find really discouraging about IJ, so few people are even attempting basic human decency.