Anon I truly mean this in a very nice way, but not every person who is venting is saying somebody is wrong and they are right. Reading every comment in here like we're Judge Judy and need to determine who is right and who is wrong is not helpful. Sometimes a vent is just a vent. When my bestie goes out to dinner with me and says "I'm frustrated there are no single people in this city!" they're not shaming me for being in a relationship, and me saying "People are allowed to be in a relationship if they want to and shouldn't have to be single if they don't want to" is a weird thing to say. If it doesn't apply, let it fly.